I just popped in just to say something on this....
You should understand that right now you are both in NEED.
You might be satisfying this NEED by filling the void with each other.
The feelings you have might be true or they might be illusion.
However, it is impossible to know since there are too many things with conflicting interests.
Back off
Let both of you get your lives in order, including separation from your respective spouses.
If this actually happens, only then can you start true.
Because there will no interference with conflicting emotions.
Take it very slow; your pain might be painting your visions,
And influencing your actions.
Don't lunge, step carefully,
You must BOTH be free and know your true selves again,
Before you can commit again to another.
I wish you well; desire can hide your pain.
Know it, and then you can make clear decisions.
Good luck.
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