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Old 01-28-2004, 07:52 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I think everyone goes through this kind of transition, particularly after you've been with someone for a while. Unfortunately, you're the only person who can determine whether you're with her out of genuine love or out of fear/habit. The only way you can really tell is to ask yourself what your life would be like without her. Do you find that it's all about you (I'd be lonely, I'd be bored, I'd be horny) or is it about her (I'd miss talking with her, I'd be lost without her, etc)?
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