I went through alot of the same in my last relationship. Hell I still wonder if I held on so long because of love or fear of being alone. And the problem is you really never know for sure. The closest thing is believing you do one or the other.
As for the wieght thing....
Talk to her about it. Love and relationships are a complete package including physical and mental, so it's understandable that you want to be physically attrached to your gf. However, watch what you say. And make damn sure you're not letting yourself go also or just keep your mouth shut.
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