All sorted - sort of.
Profuse apolgies to my good lady, lucky she knew I was not aiming for my brown wings.
I did use some of the reasoning you guy put forward however I must confess not the you can stick ...... in my ring. Sorry but in my humble opion traffic on flows one way there.
She was angry due to pain etc. No doggie style for a while but with TFP suggesting a different position each day I do not think things will stagnate .
Thanks all .