I wouldn't just say "don't push the sex thing", I'd say to give it a considerable break... even if she thinks it will be ok soon, that guilt will get to her afterwards. Seeing a therapist is a good idea, but beyond that take special efforts to show her that its her that you like, not just having sex with her. It could be many things that caused this, and jumping to conclusions isn't a good idea because you might not end up addressing the real issue. Just be careful, patient, and let her know that you're going to stick around.
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