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Actually, I've found that women love a man confident enough to dance. When i go to clubs without my SO, i just get on the floor and dance while the majority of men stand arounf the dance floor and bar insisting that "They don't dance".
It doesn't take long before women start bumping against me on the floor when 5 minutes ago there was several feet of distance between us. Quite frankly, don't ask to dance. get on the floor, dance, and if and when a young lady bumps into you or seems to be checking you out in close proximity, dance with her.
It's the most terrifying thing in the world to just move over to a girl near you on the dance floor and start dancing with her as opposed to near her, but it's that fear that keeps all the other guys at bay by the bar.
The last time i attended a club here, i remember that about 15 minutes after i got on the floor and started dancing alone, a young lady kept bumping into me while dancing with her freinds. The next time she bumped into me i put my arm around her waist and turned her around to face me.
The fear that she's going to scream "Ewww don't touch me" scares guys, but for the most part girls are so happy to have someone to dance with (as i think you are as well) that they'll be more than happy to dance as long as your not fresh.
Just be confident in yourself and look for a dance partner, not a date or lay. Girls can damned well figure if it's a nice guy or someone trying to get in their pants.
Just go to dance, and if something happens then something happpens. Don't plan on it or look for it. Just enjoy yourself.
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