Lebell hits the nail on the head. Communication. Simply talk it over sometime before you engage in sex and when the time is right, let the filth flow. While talking it over, definately set the boundries so egos do not get bruised.
Also, if the talk starts getting out of hand, you may want to have set up in advance a "safe" word or phrase. Kind of like what S&M'ers do. If the pillow talk (or rough sex) starts to go too far, either you or your partner can say the safe word and you both will agree to go "back to basics."
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