Been with for almost 7 years, married for over 4
We have had our ups and downs. We still work on it- now we are at the point of *really* focusing on the other's desires and spicing things up.
When I had my son, my whole body changed- my hormones flew off the deep end and I even became depressed for a while. I still have troubles, because I don't have the sex drive like I used to, but I wish to work on my frame of mind and experiment with things that can arouse me easier. My mind is almost constantly in mom-mode, even if I am away from my son for a while.
But, like I said- it's all good. Sacrifice, communication, experimenting, and trying new things helps the sex life.
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