I would say- Act in the Now. Do what your heart tells you. If you wish to make the best of the time with her, it may be an incredible experience, even if painful in the end.
That is what she may need and want to experience. Talk with her.
I know that getting involved when you know that she could die (let's not give our hopes up) the experience of your relationship may be what she longs for before she leaves.
Just talk with her about it and see if just living in the now and making the best of what you have and *living like there's no tomorrow*.
If not, you could at least have a powerful, meaningful relationship that she may also want.
Most of all, just be there for her. Put her first.
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