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neoinoakleys · 04-30-2003, 08:17 AM

Ok, here is the story...

My wife is really kool about letting me hang out with my guy friends and even go to the strip clubs. She is not the jealous type.

Although, some of my buddies are getting married now and the amount of time that we get to spend together just being guys are slowly dimineshing.

Some of the wives are out right opposed to strip clubs and bars and things of the like. I am no psychologist but shouldn't a relationship be built on trust???

If you can't trust your significant other to go out and do WHATEVER he/she wants then what's the point of being married? Better yet, why are you married to a person that you can't trust?

My wife and I are VERY secure in our relationship. I don't get jealous with her hanging with her girlfriends and doing whatever, and she doesn't get jealous when I hang with my buddy's. Hell, her and I both check out chicks at the malls and bars together. (she is not bi or a lesbian). She just knows that I would never stray and she trusts me. I have never given her any reason not to trust me. I am very loyal to my wife.

So why are women so threatened by our "guy nights??"

BTW....If I were a woman, I would much rather have my man go to a strip club from time to time than go to the bars. In a strip club, the chances of a stripper going home with you is slim to none. think about it ladies...the strippers are around guy ALL DAY LONG, everyday....they have heard EVERY line in the book. They are there to make money, this is a job to them.

On the other hand, I could go home with at least 1 woman every night that we go to the bar. Some woman are there solely for that purpose....

hmmm...think about it...

any thoughts?

04-30-2003, 08:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
neoinoakleys Psycho Location: Michigan	how does your significant other feel about... Ok, here is the story... My wife is really kool about letting me hang out with my guy friends and even go to the strip clubs. She is not the jealous type. Although, some of my buddies are getting married now and the amount of time that we get to spend together just being guys are slowly dimineshing. Some of the wives are out right opposed to strip clubs and bars and things of the like. I am no psychologist but shouldn't a relationship be built on trust??? If you can't trust your significant other to go out and do WHATEVER he/she wants then what's the point of being married? Better yet, why are you married to a person that you can't trust? My wife and I are VERY secure in our relationship. I don't get jealous with her hanging with her girlfriends and doing whatever, and she doesn't get jealous when I hang with my buddy's. Hell, her and I both check out chicks at the malls and bars together. (she is not bi or a lesbian). She just knows that I would never stray and she trusts me. I have never given her any reason not to trust me. I am very loyal to my wife. So why are women so threatened by our "guy nights??" BTW....If I were a woman, I would much rather have my man go to a strip club from time to time than go to the bars. In a strip club, the chances of a stripper going home with you is slim to none. think about it ladies...the strippers are around guy ALL DAY LONG, everyday....they have heard EVERY line in the book. They are there to make money, this is a job to them. On the other hand, I could go home with at least 1 woman every night that we go to the bar. Some woman are there solely for that purpose.... hmmm...think about it... any thoughts? __________________ It's My Duty to Please That Booty!! Last edited by neoinoakleys; 04-30-2003 at 08:19 AM..