I'd tell her your story right up front, before you even go out anywhere. I'd hate to go out on a nice date with someone I'm into, only for them to say, "Oh, buy the way, I'm moving to CHINA for the rest of my life! But wasn't the fish deeelish?"
Let her know you are determined to skedaddle. 3-5 months is enough for the both of you to decide whether she should come with you, I reckon. Good luck and keep us posted, if you like.
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