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Harshaw · 01-19-2004, 05:15 PM

Ok, so I met a girl at a new years eve party. We kind of hit it off, but I didn't really make a move. I met with a mutual friend last night and she said her friend really wants me to call her, and gave me her number. I didn't make a move at the party because I know I am moving out of this state in 3-5 months. Nothing will keep me in this state. Nothing.
If I were going to stay here, I would call her and see how things went from there. I wouldn't mind going out with her for a while and then going into a long distance relationship (as long as it sucked less than my last one). Not calling her is not an option (I've read way too many threads about guys who don't call). Do I call her, thank her and explain? Do I go on a few dates and explain?

What is the best way to do this without leading her on? Or being a jerk in some other way?

01-19-2004, 05:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	Dating and moving Ok, so I met a girl at a new years eve party. We kind of hit it off, but I didn't really make a move. I met with a mutual friend last night and she said her friend really wants me to call her, and gave me her number. I didn't make a move at the party because I know I am moving out of this state in 3-5 months. Nothing will keep me in this state. Nothing. If I were going to stay here, I would call her and see how things went from there. I wouldn't mind going out with her for a while and then going into a long distance relationship (as long as it sucked less than my last one). Not calling her is not an option (I've read way too many threads about guys who don't call). Do I call her, thank her and explain? Do I go on a few dates and explain? What is the best way to do this without leading her on? Or being a jerk in some other way? __________________ This too shall pass.