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Originally posted by numist
If attitude and personality were not readily visible from the first meeting, Id give it a shot, and see what happened.
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Numist brings about an interesting point.
Men are often accused of being willing to screw anything with a pussy, but perhaps statments like this show that in fact we're more open to giving those people outside our comfort zone a chance, and have earned this reputation unjustfully.
The often qouted idea that men are the sex which respondes to visual stimuli was a freudian theory that was proven wrong in the early 50's (before the kinsley report even!) and comments like numists make me ponder if males are in fact less likly to judge based on initial visual perception than females. After all, we always hear about how girls tear each other up verbally in adolescent years.
Now i'm not saying that men don't judge visualy, or that women judge more than they aknowledge, but rather saying that the answer is in the middle, and that perhaps no gender does it more than the other.
Just mind food to chew on.