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Originally posted by Plan9
I think leading a person on is a greater disservice than rejecting them...but that is just my opinion.
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But I use physical attributes as a small indicator of the person. I would at least give them a chance even if they weren't within my standards, which are at my most shallow are more broad than most men. I believe that things can happen (like love) regardless of what we think we want. I might find the most incredible person wrapped in a 400lb package, or I might find a fun person to ahng with but no chemistry exists. Chemistry and attraction are different; I'm attracted to Veronica Zemanova, but since I haven't met her I have no idea if we have chemistry. I may want to fuck her body, but she may be a total bitch that I personally can't stand. And in this situation the opposite is true.
I just disagree with "leagues" and "looks snobbery". Am I attractive? Not the best not the worst. If I was gorgeous to women I would probably be more ignorant of these things since I almost never would be in the situation of being turned down. I'm glad to be average and I don't think it to be leading someone on, but an oppotunity to cast aside my more shallow aspects (yes I have them too) and give someone a chance who took a chance and opened her self up to being rejected. If they were a good person I would take it from there.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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