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Originally posted by HFrankenstein
I've always believed that the best way to get a girl to be interested in you, and to maintain that interest, is to make her chase you, to see to it that, while she knows you're into her, she doesn't know just how much.
That said, when a girl asks you out, you have to think quick and strike a balance between keeping the chase going, and totally shooting her down. Chances are, she's going to ask you out for a Friday/Saturday date. Say you have other plans for that night, but make a counter-offer for a night during the week. The big benefit of this is, she'll think she's competing with someone who has access to your big date nights, so now she'll really start going out of her way to make you want her.
Women almost never make the first move when it comes to dating. But when it does happen, and it will happen at least once, you gotta make it count.
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Your youth is showing my freind. The attitude of the "making her chase me" has all the maturity of a 19yr old frat boy (whatever your real age may be). In a real relatonship there is equality and both partners are not equal if one thinks the other should be chasing them.
A good strong relationship doesn't have a power struggle or any idea of the "chase" in it's cliched sense. It's just two people becoming close freinds and getting closer everyday.
My fiance asked me out to our second date after canceling that which would have been our fist. It was a year between the two.