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This is gonna be a little off-topic. I know you're question was if she's unattractive. If that's the case, I would say no. Anyway...
Guys love it when the girl does the work for them. However, it does create a dilemma (assuming you're interested in her, of course):
I've always believed that the best way to get a girl to be interested in you, and to maintain that interest, is to make her chase you, to see to it that, while she knows you're into her, she doesn't know just how much.
That said, when a girl asks you out, you have to think quick and strike a balance between keeping the chase going, and totally shooting her down. Chances are, she's going to ask you out for a Friday/Saturday date. Say you have other plans for that night, but make a counter-offer for a night during the week. The big benefit of this is, she'll think she's competing with someone who has access to your big date nights, so now she'll really start going out of her way to make you want her.
Women almost never make the first move when it comes to dating. But when it does happen, and it will happen at least once, you gotta make it count.
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