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~springrain · 01-16-2004, 03:18 PM

I need to vent.

I just read a thread in Tilted Sports which you can find HERE

… it’s some bullshit about the president of the World Soccer Org. suggesting that women wear more revealing uniforms to increase male interest in the game.

It’s not this particular thread… it’s ALL the threads, articles, tv shows, and the like that need to box women into a sexual category. I am sick and tired of the opinion that women aren't interesting unless they are sexy -- or serving the male sex drive.

Listen, I am a sexual person. I like to experiment… I am free thinking… I am NOT against porn. Sometimes I like to be romantic and make love all gushy like… and sometimes I like to get down and dirty and just fuck like crazy. I believe in free expression and feel we could all give ourselves more permission to express and explore our sexuality. I am not saying that I am against sex or women being sexual.

What I am saying, and what I hate… is that so many men seem incapable of seeing a woman in any OTHER way than sexual. Many of us are extremely sexual, erotic, sensual beings… but that is only PART of who we are. A woman is much more than her breasts, vagina and behind. Or should I say, her tits, pussy and ass?

I’m just sick and tired of women being objectified. Most of the time, when a woman speaks up about this topic, she is labeled is “frigid”, “cold”, a “bitch” or countless other words that I am sure most of you ladies are familiar with. Men would be offended and irritated if women suggested that pro ball players play in g-strings, and not allow “fat ugly guys” into the league. So why can’t women be offended?

How many times have you been here on the forum and read a thread where the men are saying things like “I wouldn’t marry it, but I’d hit it”. WTF does that mean? Well, I know what it means… I’m just feeling irritated with their immaturity, self-centeredness and ignorance

I also get irritated with the women who just giggle and seem to brush it off as nothing.
Women are amazing creatures (no, I don’t mean more amazing then men, just unique in our own way).
We are lawyers, doctors, teachers, managers, clerks, entertainers, leaders, visionaries… the list could go on and on. We have the unique ability to nurture and give life… we are amazing and complex beings. So much more than "tit, ass, and pussy".

*deep breath*… ~ end rant.
Thanks for listening.

01-16-2004, 03:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
~springrain Banned Location: central USA	RANT on men, women and sexuality... I need to vent. I just read a thread in Tilted Sports which you can find HERE … it’s some bullshit about the president of the World Soccer Org. suggesting that women wear more revealing uniforms to increase male interest in the game. It’s not this particular thread… it’s ALL the threads, articles, tv shows, and the like that need to box women into a sexual category. I am sick and tired of the opinion that women aren't interesting unless they are sexy -- or serving the male sex drive. Listen, I am a sexual person. I like to experiment… I am free thinking… I am NOT against porn. Sometimes I like to be romantic and make love all gushy like… and sometimes I like to get down and dirty and just fuck like crazy. I believe in free expression and feel we could all give ourselves more permission to express and explore our sexuality. I am not saying that I am against sex or women being sexual. What I am saying, and what I hate… is that so many men seem incapable of seeing a woman in any OTHER way than sexual. Many of us are extremely sexual, erotic, sensual beings… but that is only PART of who we are. A woman is much more than her breasts, vagina and behind. Or should I say, her tits, pussy and ass? I’m just sick and tired of women being objectified. Most of the time, when a woman speaks up about this topic, she is labeled is “frigid”, “cold”, a “bitch” or countless other words that I am sure most of you ladies are familiar with. Men would be offended and irritated if women suggested that pro ball players play in g-strings, and not allow “fat ugly guys” into the league. So why can’t women be offended? How many times have you been here on the forum and read a thread where the men are saying things like “I wouldn’t marry it, but I’d hit it”. WTF does that mean? Well, I know what it means… I’m just feeling irritated with their immaturity, self-centeredness and ignorance I also get irritated with the women who just giggle and seem to brush it off as nothing. Women are amazing creatures (no, I don’t mean more amazing then men, just unique in our own way). We are lawyers, doctors, teachers, managers, clerks, entertainers, leaders, visionaries… the list could go on and on. We have the unique ability to nurture and give life… we are amazing and complex beings. So much more than "tit, ass, and pussy". deep breath… ~ end rant. Thanks for listening. Last edited by ~springrain; 01-16-2004 at 03:50 PM..