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Originally posted by cheerios
Also, remember... your boyfriend is a big boy. He's PERFECTLY capable of entertaining himself/seeing the sights/whatever else he wants to do. I know y'all have 2 cars out there, and I know y'all have roommates to talk to/make friends with. So. don't take all the responsibility if he's being a bit anti-social. if he's bored, he'll need to be doing something about it, even if it means getting out on his own. You're his girlfriend, not his nanny!
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My thoughts exactly. Of course you care about him, and so you want him to be happy. But he has to take the responsibility of making a life for himself, well himself.
That said, I also agree that it's a good idea for the three of you to hang out together. Like lurkette said, there are plenty of free activities you could explore. The more time you all spend together, I think the relationship between your boyfriend and friend will naturally improve. I hope it all works out for you!