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I went almost 3000 miles from New York to Los Angeles, leaving behind a vast, intricate social network, including a girlfriend of a year and a half.
I did it with the support of my family. I did it with confidence in my ability to handle anything, even if it was a somewhat exaggerated claim. I also did it realizing that there are resources to help me at the university and, again, that my family would help me, too.
Concerning friends, I did nothing close to burning bridges. I maintained those relationships (via phone and email) that I felt worthwhile. I made sure to make my presence known when I went home for breaks and summers. I pretty much did my best to maintain the "best of both worlds."
I did keep in touch with my girlfriend. She and I were always mentally resonant, so she understood. Now, we are quite good friends.
Nothing's easy, though, and I can say that these past 3 years have been quite a ride. But you know that.
Good luck, and stick it to 'em.
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