I don't want to sound like my husband is a sex-fiend or insensitive- he really isn't- we just have a common difference here and have had a difficult time communicating and understanding one another on this. What I keep in mind is the question: "what can I do to make a difference?" I cannot control his decisions or opinions- I respect him for that- but I know that there are things out there that I can do to help eleviate the situation. For instance- meditation, practicing tantra with him, really focusing on intimacy in different aspects with him. I guess I keep going back to the whole "communication is a MUST in relationships" and I feel we are better, but not 100%. Thank you for all your responses. I will be giving updates.
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