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This topic brought about one particular memory I have. A former girlfriend and I were nearing the end of a relationship and we were discussing how well one another would get along in the world alone; dealing with pre-seperation anxieties.
Durring the conversation she said; "I won't have any problems finding a man I am afterall female, and most men only want one thing.". It was at this moment that I realised not only was I with the wrong person but also that she was right. Most women do not have problems finding new relationships. Most men, in my experience, are attracted to women initially for sexual reasons, and because of depravity will advance a relationship with a woman who is willing before considering the more diverse issues within a relationship. By relationship I mean anything from just casual sex to a lasting partnership.
From then on I admit to having some form of "vagina engy". As a man I know my boundaries in the courtship arena, or at least I practice some form of reservations. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that it is much more difficult for me as a man to find a quality relationship than it is for a woman of equal stature, and I often ask myself "why is it harder?". My answer thus far has been; I am male.
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