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First, take the girl off the damn pedestal. Seriously man, it's like you are looking up to her so much that the idea of having sex with her almost grosses you out. Because you don't want to "defile" her?
It would seem to me that you're just building her up to be some kind of magical, beautiful, flawless entity, and not a woman at all. Being nervous about sex is a natural thing, and you'll get over it. But you're going have to relax, in a major way. Loosen up, or you'll end up driving her away. The odds on that are far greater than the odds of her not liking you anymore because she gives you a hard-on.
You said she's been your girlfriend for a few months. And you're 19. What's the rush? Hang out, have a good time, kiss when you feel like it, and open your damn mouth -- not just when you kiss but also when you have something to say. Without communication there's no relationship, either.
This too shall pass, kiddo. Try and chill a bit, and you and your girl will be able to enjoy each other a heck of a lot more.
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