Sorry sweetie....Mother of three...and I'm still horny as hell half the time....and just plain horny the other.....I would say because it's so soon after the baby...but 4 years...not likely
could be stress.....problems with the hubby and rasiing a child can do that to a sex drive.....and he needs to be more understanding....your is wife...not his sex slave...if you aren't in the mood....then he neds to find the bathroon and a playboy and deal with it.
The best advice I can give is to talk with him...find a common ground...and understand that you both have needs a limits.
hope that helps
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