Sex, Motherhood, and your Man
Well, I used to have a wild sex drive before I had our son in '00, but since then it's plumeted- I don't know why- I lost the boobs and the drive.
My husband could take sex at any given moment of the day (that's typical) and really likes to throw out inuendos to me all the time. Too much, sometimes- and then when he signals to go and have sex, it is usually at the most inconvenient time- about ready to go out, our son is there, etc. He sometimes gets really pissed off and I feel like he is blaming me.
We talked about this in depth last night, and it wasn't the first time. I just don't know where to go from here in order to please him, yet not give into him whenever he wants it.
I was wondering if any of you ladies (moreso mothers) had this happen to them at all. I wonder what the best solution is for this. I really do have quite a sexual intrigue and love the beauty and intimacy of it, as well as being semi-kinky- but I feel that I can't enjoy it as much if I do it every night, which he would prefer.
Hope there's some insight some of you might have.
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