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lurkette · 01-09-2004, 06:01 AM

Word to Gibingus.

Looks like you jumped into this a little soon and ignored TONS of flashing red lights - it may be time to take a little break from each other and get to know the "real" her (not the IRC, "looking-for-a-way-out-of-my-boring-life-oh-look-there's-someone" her) before you decide whether you still want to be with her. You've got this idealized person in your head that you want her to change "back" to - sorry, dude - this is the real thing, and the idealized person is a fantasy. Caveat emptor (buyer beware). (Anyhow know how to say "lover beware in Latin?)

Best of luck, but looks like you got yourself into a nice mess with a psycho.

01-09-2004, 06:01 AM	#11 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Word to Gibingus. Looks like you jumped into this a little soon and ignored TONS of flashing red lights - it may be time to take a little break from each other and get to know the "real" her (not the IRC, "looking-for-a-way-out-of-my-boring-life-oh-look-there's-someone" her) before you decide whether you still want to be with her. You've got this idealized person in your head that you want her to change "back" to - sorry, dude - this is the real thing, and the idealized person is a fantasy. Caveat emptor (buyer beware). (Anyhow know how to say "lover beware in Latin?) Best of luck, but looks like you got yourself into a nice mess with a psycho. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France Last edited by lurkette; 01-09-2004 at 06:04 AM..