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Gibingus is right on with this. Why you would want to be with someone who would ditch her "boyfriend" like this on short notice is beyond me. There is a truism in life and that is people generally don't change. How she treats others when there is nothing to gain is generally how she probably is. She sounds exactly like my ex-girlfriend who was manic-depressive. She could be so sweet and sexy and an absolute bitch the next. I was her second sexual experience (she was 28 and I was 24), and she instigated it in a public hot tub when noone else was round. This was so incredibly hot. She lived with her elderly mom in a town about an hour away. I asked her to come and stay with me one night on a weekend. She said she hoped I wasn't just inviting her down for sex. That should have been a red flag for me. We went to dinner, had a nice conversation and ended up in bed. I tried to kiss her, and she basically said that she knew this was why I had invited her down (WTF?). We weren't together much longer after that. We didn't even officially break it off. We just kind of stopped talking to each other. Break it off clean and quick or have a sit down talk like you have never talked. This needs to be aired immediately or you are in for worse heartbreak. You are already on the right road by knowing that something needs to be done.
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