I think this is actually such bullshit. I feel for you man.
I don't understand for the life of me why she has started acting the way she is.
You say she used to drink, but now doesn't...that's odd.
You say she used to cook, but now doesn't...that's odd.
The fact that she doesn't talk to you ever about her problems, but then has the audacity to post the problems on the internet to complete strangers, to me, would raise some alarms.
It seems like you're a good guy, and you're trying to make things work.
It also seems that she's not willing to make things work, and she has become dependant on you. (asking you to make all the decisions)
If I were you, I would tell her to smarten up, or it's over.
I wouldn't put up with this bullshit. Life's too short to just 'settle' on somebody.
Do what makes you happy.
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