Just don't take rejection personally. I did this all the time when I was younger. I would equate a no as there was something wrong with me. Maybe I wasn't her physical type, etc. You never really know what is going to attract someone to you. It is just best to be confident and not to worry too much if you get a no. I would focus on one particular girl to the point where if I was rejected, I took it badly. In the meantime I would totally miss the vibe from other girls who did want to go out with me because I was so focused in another direction. Some girls will take charge of the situation but many will not. They prefer to put out subtle signals and let you make the first move.
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