There IS no should.
Why ask for others' opinions on what you should do?- as others' opinions vary. One's opinion they could claim as "right", while someone else would say the same thing about their opinion, even though it is different.
Ask YOURSELF for a change- the most reliable is yourself. What feels right to you? WHat feels good to you? What would be the consequences of your actions/words/etc.? The answers are there, try and choose to rely on your own decisions for once. See the results. BE yourself. Don't make your decisions based on other people's ideas & beliefs.
Not a rant, it's a positive enforcement.
