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Vaultboy · 01-04-2004, 10:42 PM

Stepping to a complete stranger is extra awkward and damn unerving, but there are tips. These tips look rather retarded, and its stuff you know, but I've found that reading stuff like this actually affirms its validity and makes one more sure that it works. And it does. I can attest to this personally.

Tips:

1. Walk up to her, make eye contact and introduce yourself.
2. Pay her a non-sexual compliment. Something neutral like she has a beautiful smile. Do not mention tits, ass, legs, or even vague comments like "you look really nice." Dont make her feel like food.
3. Note the awkwardness of the situation, and ask her name. tell her that you know this strange/awkward (avoid words like "weird", "freaky" etc.) but you would like to know her name. And smile. Look friendly. If she gives it, yay.
4. Then state your purpose. You want her number? ask for it. You want coffe and conversation? ask for it. But be polite and offer her an out. dont make her feel like she's cornered. If you ask her out right off the bat, she would have to have at least seen you before though (even though she does not know you). Otherwise, stick to asking her number. You can phone her up then.

When you do phone, ask if its okay to phone. Yes, she gave her number, but it does not neccesarily mean she's interested. Trust me. Women are illogical. You are doing four things when you do this:
1. You're showing your interest/ you're being honest
2. You're noting that your first meeting was a bit pressured.
3. You're being polite.
4. you're offering her an out.

All of which serves to disarm her. If she gates you and says no, move on to somebody else. She's not interested, and no amount of stalking will fix that.

01-04-2004, 10:42 PM	#7 (permalink)
Vaultboy Addict Location: Third World	Stepping to a complete stranger is extra awkward and damn unerving, but there are tips. These tips look rather retarded, and its stuff you know, but I've found that reading stuff like this actually affirms its validity and makes one more sure that it works. And it does. I can attest to this personally. Tips: 1. Walk up to her, make eye contact and introduce yourself. 2. Pay her a non-sexual compliment. Something neutral like she has a beautiful smile. Do not mention tits, ass, legs, or even vague comments like "you look really nice." Dont make her feel like food. 3. Note the awkwardness of the situation, and ask her name. tell her that you know this strange/awkward (avoid words like "weird", "freaky" etc.) but you would like to know her name. And smile. Look friendly. If she gives it, yay. 4. Then state your purpose. You want her number? ask for it. You want coffe and conversation? ask for it. But be polite and offer her an out. dont make her feel like she's cornered. If you ask her out right off the bat, she would have to have at least seen you before though (even though she does not know you). Otherwise, stick to asking her number. You can phone her up then. When you do phone, ask if its okay to phone. Yes, she gave her number, but it does not neccesarily mean she's interested. Trust me. Women are illogical. You are doing four things when you do this: 1. You're showing your interest/ you're being honest 2. You're noting that your first meeting was a bit pressured. 3. You're being polite. 4. you're offering her an out. All of which serves to disarm her. If she gates you and says no, move on to somebody else. She's not interested, and no amount of stalking will fix that. __________________ "Failing tastes of bile and dog vomit. Pity any man that gets used to that taste."