Hmmm.... on the one hand, I would commend you, on the other, I'm not sure if that was a good idea at all, ALTHOUGH, I wouldn't have done any better even in retrospect. :S
Having said that, I have to say that I know a woman who's been married a few years, who's had a few boyfriends, who has had penetrative sex (but of course!) but not quite had the decent enough partner to really do her the honour of an orgasm.. Sadly, I know this is also an issue on its own, but to completely circumvent that, my input and personal opinion is of that the loss of virginity is in the engagement of penetrative sex. Whether or not orgasm is achieved is beside the point. Thats my view on the matter...
With regard to the 'other' issue - again, in my personal opinion, if the consent is not forthcoming, then its rape, or non-consentual intercourse. I know its a sublime and utterly thin line between one to the other, but being the 'aggressor' so to speak, I think the onus lies in the males to be more 'attentive' to whether or not the act is agreeable, and consentual to the other party.
Phew! Sorry for the convolutions - thats all! :S
- Feel free to refute, agree, or disregard these words entirely..
