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Thanks so much for all the feedback. I guess I shouldve given more background though. I've been friends with her for about a year and a half and we have the same group of friends. I know for a fact it's not another guy, while we're home from school here we all go out as a group of friends all the time and stuff and I know that it's not another guy.
The tough apart about breaking it off is that we're friends with the same group of friends and stuff so we still see each other etc.
I can pretty much guarantee she won't date anyone for the next six months following this, and I don't think I can exactly hop right into it either. In the meantime we've always hung out with the same group or together (before we were dating) so I guess I need to instill some major changes in that.
I'm still really optimistic about her and I and that's why I am hesitant about stopping things completely.
If I were to....something such as, "Listen, you have some things you need to figure out and I'm open to listening if you want to talk to me about it, otherwise I think we should not see each other so much b/c it's too hard for me." Would that work?
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