Thanks to Bill Clinton there are a lot more questions about virginity than there used to be... Physiologically it's coitus... Vaginal penitration. Psychologically, which I tend to view as more important here, I think it's got a whole more options. I personally feel that intentionally performing a sex act (you know, on stage with 3 monkeys and a dildo...{kidding, really}) but really, performing a sexually intimate act with another person is a loss of virginity. It's the change in innocense and responsibility that marks the real changes brought about by sexual activity.
Did your friend really lose her virginity? yes, she did. There's a site out there called technicalvirgin.com , I think, that kind of makes light of the whole "what's sex and where is your virginity now?" question.
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