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BDSM is about dominance and submission. To engage in this type of relationship, you must have someone who wants to control, and one who wants to be controlled.
Bondage alone is about trust. It requires a relationship in which the partners trust each other enough to give them full control during sex. It is very arousing to some people that their partner trusts them enough to be tied down and let the other person do what they want, trusting the other person to give as much pleasure as they recieve.
The basic explanation is that BDSM is about receiving pleasure from dominance and submission, and Bondage is about receiving pleasure from trust. Anyone who can't understand that is probably too narrow-minded to have interest in a relatinoship involving either.
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