The sheer breadth of the spectrum of human kicks is one of the greatest things about us as a species.
lurkette likes to be bound and spanked. I've got the sash from one of her silk bathrobes, and it's Much Fun to whip her with it and run it up and down her. That's about the extent of our play in that direction.
We've got friends who are way deeper into it. One friend in particular basically has to experience some pain in order to get off.
I don't know that they're such different things... I'd say it's more a matter of degree. Bound sex involves SOME dominance and submission.
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