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Old 01-02-2004, 10:54 AM   #3 (permalink)
sillygirl
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All I can say is talk to him. You guys are so cute together, any time I've seen you. Maybe he doesn't realize that these are things that bother you. I'm sure that his feelings for you haven't changed, otherwise he wouldn't have proposed to you. Things get more comfortable throughout a relationship, and sometimes people 'forget' to say things, because they already know it's true. D'ya know what I mean? I'd say make him his favorite dinner, have it ready just as he gets home. Pour some wine (or raspberry vodka, whichever ) and tell him you love him, that you did this for him just because you love him. Maybe start a 'remember when' conversation and share memories of your relationship. Somehow slide in that you remember all those times he'd tell you he loved you or that you're beautiful. Don't do it in an accusatory way, just say it somehow. That'll probably stir something up in his mind, and it just might get him making more of an effort again!
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