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Major communication issues
My girlfriend and I have been dating since mid-September. Things have been going decently I suppose. We have our ups and downs like any couple would. We have never had a real arguement though, we can compromise fairly well, so we tend to avoid those.
My problem is that sometimes it is like I don't even exist. We go to college together and are on Christmas break right now. She lives about 5 hours away. We have talked online maybe three whole times in the past three weeks, and that has been it as far as communication. I haven't talked to her in over a week. She is no longer online(she used to be signed on 24/7.) She gave me absolutely no warning she was going to do this, and I know she hasn't gone on vacation or something like that.
I would call her but I don't have her phone number, and even then I am not 100% sure I would call. This is going to sound weird, but it would be awkward, I would get the attitude "What are you calling for?"
Now I understand we are on break and she is spending time with family and stuff, but would a 5 minute phone call be too much to ask for? This is my first real relationship, and I don't think I am being unreasonable. While we are on break she treats me like I don't exist. One time we were talking online and she just left. No warning, nothing. She threw up an away message, she didn't even type 'gtg, bye'.
She treated me this way over thanksgiving break too.
This just doesn't seem normal to me, anyone care to input?
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