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Originally posted by skysooner
I'm sorry to hear that as well. I just started reading this thread and was going to emphatically say dump her. She is at a completely different place in her life. Maybe in 5 to 7 years you would have been right for each other, but the early 20s and late teens are a big growth phase for most people. I personally wouldn't date anyone under the age of 25 if I were in my late 20s now. It is easy to say now with the hindsight of age, but things are so much clearer now.
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I had the same game plan.. I wasn't going to date anyone so much younger than I. This girl just captured my heart tho. I couldn't resist. We did some serious talking before we officially called our romance a couple. She assured me she was done with her partying days and was ready for a true commitment. She would tell me every few days how she loved that I was so supportive of her, and sweet to her. She thanked me for being so patient with her. But when it stopped it stopped cold turkey.
She has now reverted back to her party mentality and to be honest I have no problem with that it's just she should have talked to me first before cheating on me. I would have been ok with dropping back to either just a friendship or maybe even the occasional date..
Getting this stuff off my chest really helps. Thanks to all for listening.