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I wouldn't necessarily say you're co-dependent, Neo. It's those first 3 weeks that you keep thinking about, though, isn't it?
The "honeymoon" phase of a relationship is not something you should be using to decide what it's chances of success are. See how things go during the bad times, and make your decisions accordingly. After all, bad times will and do happen, and if you and she were able to constructively work through them, then I'd say you had a shot.
But you're in the midst of a "bad time" right now, and she's definitely not helping things.
She's got to go. Or more importantly: you do.
Don't let the memory of some happiness blind you to the fact that you seem to have been relegated to some infrequently-visited corner of her life, and no relationship on Earth is going to be able to survive that!
Keep looking!
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