Suck up the sleeping over. If you love her then you should know what it will mean to her and you will do it and do it with no fuss.
As for competition with Mr. Perfect. Again, don't sweat it.
1) You gave them gifts at Ramadan
2) Respect is a two-way street. I'm not saying get in their face and demand respect. Your precense (not presents) show respect for them. You are attending their family gathering. IF you are going to be a part of the family you need to attend family gatherings. Religion has nothing to do with this.
3) In the long run, parents care only that their daughter is happy. If you are sitting around all sullen and grumpy they will wonder if you are good for her. Be yourself. Don't sweat the religion and learn to enjoy the oddities of your new family.
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- Old Man Luedecke
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