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Lebell · 04-29-2003, 01:01 PM

It sounds like your friend is dealing with many issues, all of which are tied around each other. These probably include dealing with his father, questions about his sexuality, and possibly molestation issues.

I hate to say it, but a relationship will be very difficult with him until he can start to deal with these things, probably in therapy. I worked through many of these myself, especially anger at my father (also an alcoholic).

I wish I could be more encouraging, but I'll tell you that time does heal and that you'll find someone.

Good luck bro.

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Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	It sounds like your friend is dealing with many issues, all of which are tied around each other. These probably include dealing with his father, questions about his sexuality, and possibly molestation issues. I hate to say it, but a relationship will be very difficult with him until he can start to deal with these things, probably in therapy. I worked through many of these myself, especially anger at my father (also an alcoholic). I wish I could be more encouraging, but I'll tell you that time does heal and that you'll find someone. Good luck bro. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!