Her insecurities are the problem here, not any kind of loose morals on my part before she and I went out. I took a female friend out for coffee in January, she met and had unprotected sex twice with a sleazy guy in February and then in late March I asked her out. I didn't know about this guy until later on in our relationship, and when I found out I insisted we both get tested, and we did.
Mind you, I'm not upset about her having sex with this guy she had only just met the day before, simply because she told me and I made us get tested, and because it happened before she and I got together, but she was upset about me having coffee with another female friend almost three months before I even asked her out, and that's what caused this huge fight tonight.
In the past few months she's said to me:
- "I hate you"
- "You're a shitty boyfriend"
- "[Mutual friend's name] would make a better boyfriend than you."
- "F--k you" (tonight)
Some tiny little part of my brain is telling me that she's a psycho and I'm glad to have got out with my sanity.
