Thanks for the replies guys.
She read the whole thing and is now jealous that I wrote about my partners in 2001 and 2002, before I even knew her name.
I ended up telling her that she was wrong to get angry at such things and take it out on me, and that she needed to find someone other than her obviously biased friends to tell her what was right and what was wrong. She said 'F--k you' to me, and I said that's it.
So no more
Thanks for the replies everyone, I really appreciate it. Almost ten months down the drain!