I think you're right in that she has no right to be upset about the journal from the ex. First off, if she "discovered" it, she was snooping...that's not good. To a point, your past isn't her business, UNLESS it affects you NOW. And, from what I'm reading, it doesn't.
How to fix the problem now...I dunno. Obviously apologize for the misunderstanding, and explain why it's still around...and next...think about doing a journal with her.
I've never been in something like this before, so I can't give advice from experience, but what I did give, I hope helps.
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