Am I just being paranoid?
Alright, somewhat long story incoming.
I've been friends with this girl for quite a while. Her name's Shayna. About 2 months ago, we had a little fling, spent a nite hanging out, ended up making out, next day she felt all "smothered" and ended whatever there might have been. Same thing happened about a month ago.
A week ago, the same thing happened, except she didn't end it the next day. She seemed really happy, and declared to me "you're mine" We've seen each other almost everyday in the past week, and I'm so incredibly happy. But herein lies the problem.
My best friend, Evan, stopped talking to me about a month ago for reasons which are beyond me. Just one night, he stopped talking to me. He and Shayna happen to be friends, and I know she liked him in the past. He found out about me and Shayna, and has expressed to her that he doesn't want her involved with me.
I told her last night online that I thought he was trying to get her to break up with me. She replied, "don't worry about it"....so I said "as long as its not working, I have nothing to worry about"
She didn't reply. About 15 minutes later she put on an away message and that was the last thing she said to me all night.
I know it seems trivial being only a one week relationship, but I don't exactly have the greatest luck with girls, so I'm very happy to be with her, and I feel like this could blossom into a geat relationship.
Am I just being paranoid thinking she'll break up with me because of Evan, or is there some basis to my worries?
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