Hey--thanks for posting this thread!! I didn't know anything about female ejaculation, so I googled it. Apparently ejaculating is what I've been doing all this time. I guess I'm going to stop being ashamed at my 'dirty little secret' and start letting it flow.
THANK YOU.
P.S. Should I ever see the ex-boyfriend who freaked out when I did it, I'm going to kick him in the balls.