Hey girls,
First of all, thanks to all of you for the tips, advise and concerns! It's kind of the first time I've posted here with a 'real' "problem", and you've all allready been a great help!
It could be that the problem is alcohol AND cigarette-related... I do smoke a lot (tried stopping -together with my boyfriend- but both of us failed miserably) Last time I was a bit tipsy and did smoke a lot, but on the other hand, I remember well that I've had sex under quite some influence and didn't had any problems...
It's like, sometimes it works and other times it just doesn't, I still haven't singled out the true cause yet.
On all your tips on lubricants: thanks! It's true what cheerios remarked that I am/was a bit hesitant with the use of this, but I'm getting more and more curious about this and the "etra layer of fun" it can provide in sex
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Also, I realise that I should probably start thinking on searching a good gynocelogist. I've never had any serious problem 'below' so never ever went to a specified doctor on issues like that.
I wonder, do you all regularly visit your gyno or only when necessary? I know women should regularly (what i thought would mean once a year) visit a doctor for breast control, but do you think this also implies a visit to the gyno, even without any specific problems?
Anyway, thanks allready!