raeanna74

If the second time was only a day or two after the first it could explain why there would be bleeding once again. Some women do just have a very sensitive cervix as well so any deep penetration can be uncomfortable. If you can work it to avoid the deeper penetration (especially if he tends to be longer) then one position that gives lots of clitoral stim and not deep penetration would be once he is inside have him lay forward and one at a time put your legs down straight while he puts his over yours so that he is straddling you. I hope that makes sense. It's a feel good position without deep penetration.

That all said - I completely agree with wannabenakid247 - Since you are just getting started out here it would be best for you to see your Dr. Now is the time to make sure things are going smoothly not excounter more problems and she can best help you get on the right track. You don't have to see a gyno. I just see a regular family physician. They are quite capable and whether they are male or female they should be up on anything you would need to know. I have pretty much always gone to a Family Practitioner even through pregnancy and they have taken good care of me. Even a man Dr would be professional and knowledgeable. (personally I think the male Dr's are more considerate in female exams than the women I've seen)

Also Definately try the astroglide even if you are well lubed it always feels even better

p.s. My first time I bleed (spotted at least) for almost a week and was a little sore even though hubby was gentle.

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