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Nononononononono...
Just because you are going to send your ex something, doesn't mean you are still hooked...
Obviously to you, she must of been pretty great to of been with you - a break up shouldn't cancel EVERYTHING..
I mean, I broke up with my ex - we don't talk ... doesn't mean I'm not going to send her family a box of chocolates and give her a CD.. she wanted me to burn her like 300 songs for her (she had a "list") well i never got that list, so i'm just gonna make my own up.
And people who keep saying "just lose the chick" haha, pitty pitty pitty.. Just because you break up with someone doesn't mean that you should lose that person in your life, if you have a strong enough connection with someone they fill a part in your life, when they are gone it feels like a part of you is gone, just because things didn't work out as a 1on1 relationship doesn't mean that you can't carry on to be friends, besides.. difference is good for everyone in friendships..
You break up for several reasons, some of them are stupid.. some of them are good - why waste the whole time you've spent getting to know one another and shared things blah blah - if your only going to throw it all away? If that is how things work then I never want a relationship again.
When you send it to her, just say merry christmas, happy new year safe holiday blah blah - name
no love, no missing you or anything.. pure and simple.
Buddy, send it to her.. pure and simple nothing to say "hey i still want you" or anything, just a hello... merry xmas blah blah, cya - your name
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