If it was anybody else asking, I'd be concerned about what the girl would make up in her head about the gift. With you, I'm worried about what you're going to make up.
With all love, Jesus Pimp, because I've BEEN there.... You do get that right now you're Dumped Guy, right? Everything you do is going to be some sorry attempt at not being Dumped Guy anymore. Getting her back. Finding a new girl. Getting okay with just being friends. Trying to move on. ANYTHING not to be Dumped Guy.
Thing is, you'll be Dumped Guy until you accept to your BONES that you're Dumped Guy. And then you can move on. But as long as you're resisting it and denying it and fighting it, you'll give off the stench of desperation so bad, NOTHING will be possible for you.
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